“Hey, What’s up, Are you from here, Where are you from, where are you going, How are you” are the normal daily questions we heard. However, these question help us to reflect and to deepen our state of being human. Only us in relation to others will we encounter them. These are the questions of us being with others, in space and in time.
“Along the way” is a suggested title by a
friend of mine. It points to one’s journey, being on the straight way, and the
state of one’s being on the way. Maybe there is an intention of choosing this
theme but deep down, the essence and the core of it, this evokes the real human
life: its miseries and joys, its challenges and opportunities, and its treats
and assurances. Yes, we all are along our way; the way we choose or not; the
way we decide or not.
I am on my way. That is a fact but do I know
the way I am on and the reason I am on? Do I know where I am journeying to? Do
I know the people on my way and why they are with me? In what extend, Am I
influenced by the people on my journey? And so many questions we can ask
concern along the way of life.
A story about a farmer and his son and their donkey. One day a farmer and his son set for a journey to nearest town to sell their donkey. So they left their village joyfully in hope to get some money for their living. While passing to a group of people, they heard people saying,”oohoo how silly you, old man, what is the purpose of having a donkey when you cannot ride on it”. So he asked his son to ride it. But after sometimes he heard people commenting, “this son is very bad child, how come he rides the donkey and lets his father walking. Poor old man”. So the son, felt uneasy and let the father ride the donkey. However, when they passed a village, some villagers told him, “you, old man, the man without pity on the son, why you ride a donkey and leave your son to walk. Old man without heart to the son”. So the old man was so confused, he therefore, asked his son to jump on the donkey and they ride together happily knowing that he did the right thing. But after sometimes riding, passing a group of young men, he heard them saying, “look at the poor donkey, it is almost died because of the lazy man and his boy riding on it in this hot weather. Why they do such bad thing to the donkey. They are very cruel to the poor animal”. Hearing this comment, the farmer and his son jumped down from the donkey and they saw that donkey was tired. So the farmer and his son decided to carry their donkey. They tied the legs of the donkey and tied it to the log of wood and they carried them together. They were satisfied as they crossed a river. While crossing, the donkey smelled the freshness of the river water, so the donkey kicked hard the wood and it dropped down to the river. As the donkey was tied, the donkey was swallowed by the river and died. The farmer and his son went home sadly because of getting nothing.
This farmer and his son was along the way. They had a purpose on the journey but they didn’t achieve it. They were in relation to the others but let the others controlling and influencing their purpose. They didn’t stick together to achieve their goal. It was nice to be along the way but they didn’t prepare mentally and emotionally to encounter silly and bad comments on the journey.
Remember that along the way there are good people that encourage and help our life as well as bad one that stop and destroy our life’s purpose; there are people who can influence us to give up our journey and some will support us to achieve our purpose. So the choice is laying within us; it depends on us on how we respond and react upon the challenges and the threats. However, do not be afraid of taking a journey. Do not be afraid of stepping out along the way because God is with us. It has a challenge that make us strong; it has an opportunity that open us a new horizon of life. It humbles us and it strengthens us.
Along the way revels something about ourselves: our weaknesses and strength. It points to self-definition of life and the starting point of creating our new narrative, which can be one day become a grand narrative. We hope.